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Summer is upon us, and many couples will be getting married on the beach. Who can blame them: the ocean, sand and clear blue sky makes for an absolutely gorgeous backdrop. But just like any venue, it can be easy to make mistakes when planning a wedding on the beach. Avoid these most common mishaps when putting together your seaside vows.
Choosing the wrong location. Not every beach is created equal, especially when it’s a public area where you might be getting hitched in front of a crowd of strangers. Think about it: Do you really want to exchange meaningful vows with a guy in a speedo looking on? Be sure to find a venue that has a private beach--or at the very least a part of a public beach sectioned off for their sole use.
Overdoing the beach theme. Some couples go a bit crazy with the décor when planning their vows, with too many shells, anchors, sea horses, colored glass, etc. items strewn around the ceremony and reception space. You don’t want your guests to think, "Okay, we get it--it’s a beach wedding." Instead, choose a few tasteful details to personalize your space (like choosing one beach-themed element and making that your go-to theme) and let Mother Nature be your main décor element.
Picking the wrong attire. If you’re dreaming of a black tie affair, with men in tuxes and you in a princess ball gown, then skip the beach. Not only will you and your guests be too uncomfortable in the heat and humidity, but that sort of attire just won’t work with the overall vibe of the location. The beach is synonymous with relaxation and being laidback--not stiff and stuffy.
Forgetting about proper footwear. If there is some kind of flooring over the beach leading to the altar, then you can feel free to wear whatever shoes you like. But if there’s no support there, think twice about wearing heels. One false step and you’ll be face down with a mouth full of sand. And don’t forget about your guests: A basket of flip flops at the entrance to the ceremony site is a nice touch for those who wore high heels or simply don’t want to get sand in their shoes.
Overlooking the need for a sound system. The sound of the waves can be soothing, but also wreak havoc during your vows. Since you want your nearest and dearest to be able to hear what’s happening at the altar, be sure there is some sort of sound system in place beforehand.
Ignoring your guests' comfort. When you're getting married outdoors, you need to make an extra effort to make sure your guests are happy and comfortable. Have water, sunscreen, parasols (they can double as wedding favors), fans (they can also double as ceremony programs), sunglasses and anything else you can think of to take care of your loved ones.
Not having a Plan B. Another must when planning an outdoor event--a Plan B. If you’re getting married at a venue with a beach area, then there is probably a space to use for the ceremony or a tent available in case it rains. But if you’re heading down to the local beach for your vows, there needs to be another place on reserve if the weather turns, such as the VFW, community center or even your parents’ house.
