The One Thing Brides Should Never Do Right Before The Wedding

Large Editorial Image


December 23, 2016

Right before you get married is a very stressful time. The week before the wedding the brides is finalizing the seating chart, finishing any DIY projects, working out, getting her nails done, packing for the honeymoon, checking the weather, and fielding questions from vendors to family members to out of town guests. Like planning any major event, there’s always a big push at the very end, and the bride is the like the CEO of the wedding. Everything must go through her.

That’s why the one thing brides should never do right before the wedding is say yes to everything. It’s just too easy for her to get pulled in every direction, and to start being a people pleaser. If she does this, she is doomed to fail. If she starts saying yes to everything that is asked of her (yes, you can bring a plus 1… yes, I can pay extra for the bouquets… sure, the photographer can come two hours late) then she will be left feeling crappy about things. Brides, it’s your day! Here’s how to deal with the last-minute requests that will come your way:

What you can No to right off the bat: Changes to the guest list (ie. adding guests), additional charges from vendors, changes to vendor contracts.

Where you should defer to others: Make others do your dirty work for you! Redirect your guests’ questions to your planner, maid of honor, the groom or the parents. If people want to know about transportation, hotel accomodations, travel, dress code or any other aspects of the wedding, refer them to a wedding website where all the information is saved. Don’t start answering every little question that comes in. You don’t have time for that! You’ve got gift bags to stuff.

READ MORE: 9 Mistakes Brides Make On The Morning Of Their Wedding

 

Tags:

weddings

Shop bridesmaid dresses

More bridesmaid dresses | 3 of 1402 »

Monique Lhuillier Bridesmaids V Neck Ruffle Gown

Buy Now

Bridesmaids Lace Bodice V Back Dress by

Monique Lhuillier

Buy Now

Bridesmaids Strapless Dress with Removable Skirt by

Monique Lhuillier

Buy Now

  • The Perfect Summer-To-Fall Transition Dress Is On Sale For Just $35 At Zappos Right Now

    The Perfect Summer-To-Fall Transition Dress Is On Sale For Just $35 At Zappos Right Now

    Style

    today

  • Pin These Pretty Side Part Hairstyle Ideas For Those Days When You Need Simple Hair Inspo

    Pin These Pretty Side Part Hairstyle Ideas For Those Days When You Need Simple Hair Inspo

    Beauty

    today

  • Use Our Exclusive Promo Code To Get 30% Off The Allure x Case-Mate Selfie Case

    Use Our Exclusive Promo Code To Get 30% Off The Allure x Case-Mate Selfie Case

    Shop

    today

  • Sneak Peek! Here's Your First Look At A New Day, One Of The Awesome New Brands Coming To Target For Fall

    Sneak Peek! Here's Your First Look At A New Day, One Of The Awesome New Brands Coming To Target For Fall

    Style

    today

  • Get Winky Lux's Brand New Mini Lip Pill Kit For Only $12 With Our Exclusive Promo Code

    Get Winky Lux's Brand New Mini Lip Pill Kit For Only $12 With Our Exclusive Promo Code

    Beauty

    today

  • Weekend Project: Make Your Own Soothing Cuticle Cream

    Weekend Project: Make Your Own Soothing Cuticle Cream

    Beauty

    today

  • Love Your Legs? Show Them Off In An Asymmetric Hem Dress This Summer

    Love Your Legs? Show Them Off In An Asymmetric Hem Dress This Summer

    Style

    today

  • 9 Kiehl's Products Every Woman Should Own

    9 Kiehl's Products Every Woman Should Own

    Beauty

    today

  • How To Make Your Own Wonder Woman Halloween Costume

    How To Make Your Own Wonder Woman Halloween Costume

    Style

    1 day

  • Drop Everything--The New NARS Velvet Matte Foundation Stick Is Now Available At Sephora!

    Drop Everything--The New NARS Velvet Matte Foundation Stick Is Now Available At Sephora!

    Beauty

    1 day

  • 5 Target Beauty Products Every Woman Should Own

    5 Target Beauty Products Every Woman Should Own

    Beauty

    1 day

  • Fear Not! These Crop Top Outfit Ideas Will Totally Inspire You To Try One ASAP

    Fear Not! These Crop Top Outfit Ideas Will Totally Inspire You To Try One ASAP

    Style

    1 day

  • This Is The Best End-Of-Summer Mask If Your Skin Needs Some Serious TLC

    This Is The Best End-Of-Summer Mask If Your Skin Needs Some Serious TLC

    Beauty

    1 day

  • Shop The Best Slip Dresses Under $50

    Shop The Best Slip Dresses Under $50

    Style

    1 day

  • Ivory Ella's Leggings Are <em>So</em> Soft And Comfortable--Add A Pair To Your Collection ASAP

    Ivory Ella's Leggings Are So Soft And Comfortable--Add A Pair To Your Collection ASAP

    Style

    1 day

  • We Tried Peel-Off Lip Stain--And Here's What Happened

    We Tried Peel-Off Lip Stain--And Here's What Happened

    Beauty

    1 day

  • I Tried Hanacure’s Skin-Tightening Face Mask, And This Is What Happened

    I Tried Hanacure’s Skin-Tightening Face Mask, And This Is What Happened

    1 day

  • 9 Natural Products You Need From Sephora For Your Hair, Skin And Nails

    9 Natural Products You Need From Sephora For Your Hair, Skin And Nails

    Beauty

    2 days

  • 4 Foundation Hacks Every Woman Over 30 Needs To Know

    4 Foundation Hacks Every Woman Over 30 Needs To Know

    Beauty

    2 days

  • Here's What's Coming To Zara This Month--Yas!

    Here's What's Coming To Zara This Month--Yas!

    Style

    2 days

  • A Beginner's Guide To Aromatherapy & Essential Oils #WellnessWednesday

    A Beginner's Guide To Aromatherapy & Essential Oils #WellnessWednesday

    Beauty

    2 days

  • These Are The Best Wireless Bras That Are SO Soft And Make Your Boobs Look Amazing

    These Are The Best Wireless Bras That Are SO Soft And Make Your Boobs Look Amazing

    3 days

  • Urban Decay Is Launching 15 New Vice Lipsticks--And You HAVE To See Them

    Urban Decay Is Launching 15 New Vice Lipsticks--And You HAVE To See Them

    Beauty

    3 days

  • What To Wear To Disney World: Rose Gold Minnie Mouse Ears And More!

    What To Wear To Disney World: Rose Gold Minnie Mouse Ears And More!

    Style

    3 days

  • FYI, Nordstrom's Bestselling Moto Leggings Are Back In Stock (But Probably Not For Long)

    FYI, Nordstrom's Bestselling Moto Leggings Are Back In Stock (But Probably Not For Long)

    Style

    4 days

  • These Loafers Are Anything But Boring--Invest In A Pair To Upgrade Your Shoe Collection ASAP

    These Loafers Are Anything But Boring--Invest In A Pair To Upgrade Your Shoe Collection ASAP

    Style

    4 days

  • Don't Wait Until September--The Best Booties Are On Sale For $39 <em>Right Now</em>

    Don't Wait Until September--The Best Booties Are On Sale For $39 Right Now

    Style

    4 days

  • Beauty Launches That NEED To Be On Your Radar This Month

    Beauty Launches That NEED To Be On Your Radar This Month

    Beauty

    4 days

  • Drop Everything--We're Giving Away 500 Vanity Planet Makeup Brushes #SampleSaturday

    Drop Everything--We're Giving Away 500 Vanity Planet Makeup Brushes #SampleSaturday

    Beauty

    6 days

  • Once And For All, These Are The Best Wireless Bras For All Bust Sizes

    Once And For All, These Are The Best Wireless Bras For All Bust Sizes

    7 days

  • This Top Is Selling <em>Fast</em> At Nordstrom--Get One Before They're All Gone

    This Top Is Selling Fast At Nordstrom--Get One Before They're All Gone

    Style

    7 days

  • Did Beyoncé Really Not Realize That Her Outfit Was Completely See-Thru?

    Did Beyoncé Really Not Realize That Her Outfit Was Completely See-Thru?

    Celebrity

    today

  • All The Fashion Girls Are Wearing These $35 Mules From Target

    All The Fashion Girls Are Wearing These $35 Mules From Target

    Style

    today

  • 7 Celebrity Exes Who Are Still Friends

    7 Celebrity Exes Who Are Still Friends

    Celebrity

    today

  • Here's Everything You'll Need To Be Eleven From 'Stranger Things' For Halloween

    Here's Everything You'll Need To Be Eleven From 'Stranger Things' For Halloween

    Style

    today

  • What Is Rihanna Wearing? She's Practically Naked!

    What Is Rihanna Wearing? She's Practically Naked!

    Celebrity

    today

  • The One Hot Drink Doctors Say You Should Have For Your Hair, Skin & Nails

    The One Hot Drink Doctors Say You Should Have For Your Hair, Skin & Nails

    Beauty

    today

  • The Weeknd Just Released New Merch Apparel, And Fans Are Freaking Out!

    The Weeknd Just Released New Merch Apparel, And Fans Are Freaking Out!

    Style

    today

  • ThirdLove's 'Fit Finder' Will Make You Believe In Online Bra Shopping Again

    ThirdLove's 'Fit Finder' Will Make You Believe In Online Bra Shopping Again

    Style

    today

  • Kendall Jenner Just Cut Her Hair SO Short & We Hardly Recognize Her!

    Kendall Jenner Just Cut Her Hair SO Short & We Hardly Recognize Her!

    Celebrity

    1 day

  • Celebrities That Are Much Older Than You Think

    Celebrities That Are Much Older Than You Think

    Celebrity

    1 day

  • 5 Times Celebs With Big Boobs Wore Shirts As Dresses And Were Total #FashionGoals

    5 Times Celebs With Big Boobs Wore Shirts As Dresses And Were Total #FashionGoals

    Celebrity

    1 day

  • Did Kim Kardashian Really Not Realize That Her Outfit Was Completely See-Thru?

    Did Kim Kardashian Really Not Realize That Her Outfit Was Completely See-Thru?

    Celebrity

    1 day

  • The One Morning Vitamin Doctors Say You Should Have For Your Hair, Skin & Nails

    The One Morning Vitamin Doctors Say You Should Have For Your Hair, Skin & Nails

    Beauty

    1 day

  • Drop Everything You're Doing -- Target Just Released Some Major News!

    Drop Everything You're Doing -- Target Just Released Some Major News!

    Style

    1 day

  • 6 At-Home Remedies For Peeling Feet

    6 At-Home Remedies For Peeling Feet

    Beauty

    1 day

  • Hold Up - Kylie Cosmetics Is Worth HOW MUCH?

    Hold Up - Kylie Cosmetics Is Worth HOW MUCH?

    Beauty

    2 days

  • Once And For All, These Are The Best Vitamins For Your Hair, Skin & Nails That Actually Work

    Once And For All, These Are The Best Vitamins For Your Hair, Skin & Nails That Actually Work

    Beauty

    2 days

  • 6 Celeb Breakups We're Still Not Over

    6 Celeb Breakups We're Still Not Over

    Celebrity

    2 days

  • Did Rihanna Really Not Realize That Her Dress Was Completely See-Thru?

    Did Rihanna Really Not Realize That Her Dress Was Completely See-Thru?

    Celebrity

    2 days

  • Apple Just Made A Big Announcement And Fans Are Freaking Out!

    Apple Just Made A Big Announcement And Fans Are Freaking Out!

    Style

    2 days

  • How To DIY A Fidget Spinner Costume So That You'll Be The Coolest Person At Every Halloween Party

    How To DIY A Fidget Spinner Costume So That You'll Be The Coolest Person At Every Halloween Party

    Style

    3 days

  • Dr. Pimple Popper Is Finally Coming Out With A Skincare Line

    Dr. Pimple Popper Is Finally Coming Out With A Skincare Line

    Beauty

    3 days