Wondering what to get your bestie who had a kid not so long ago? If you’re thinking a baby sling or a high-tech breast pump, think again—your gal pal is just as cool as she was pre-child. She’s that mom who always seems to have it together while always looking great. If you didn’t know her, you wouldn’t even know she had a kid. Sure she’s traded in her daytime heels for really cool sneakers, swapped out her PS1 for a Balenciaga tote (it doubles as her diaper bag—duh), and still loves to exercise (perhaps even more than before), but she’s still as effortless as ever. Plus, the last thing she really wants for the holidays is another gift that only defines her by her motherhood—unless its jewelry (obvi). Get her something like a gift card to Dream Dry or a chic pair of yoga sweats. Basically get her something you might appreciate even if you weren’t a mom.