Your bachelorette party is a once in a lifetime event, so it should be an unforgettable celebration. Of course, it’s your bridesmaids’ responsibility to make sure that happens. But if you’re worried they’ll just default to Vegas–or worse, a penis party in your apartment– we’re here to help with a little guidance. To ensure your last fete as a single gal goes down in history, we rounded up 9 fun bachelorette party ideas. If dancing on tables in Vegas sounds like a nightmare, do yourself a favor and pass along this link.