Once you find your groom, your next task on the wedding to-do list is to find a maid of honor. Being given the role is an honor, but it also comes with quite a few responsibilities which is why it’s important to choose a friend or relative who you know is a real gem. You want to pick someone you can truly trust and the more Type A she is, the better. So before you commit to any lady in your life, read through these 10 things your maid of honor should help out with during the wedding planning process. Then, think about it if you’d feel comfortable asking all of your MOH contenders to do them–and trust that they’d actually get done.