1. Lift—Don’t Drop—Your Blush Placement
One of the biggest mistakes women over 40 make? Smiling while applying blush. Gabi warns this instantly drags the face down: “When we stop smiling, our apples have dropped. That blush you placed high is now sitting low, almost in the nasolabial area—and it completely collapses the face.” Instead, she recommends placing blush higher than feels natural, sweeping it from the upper outer cheekbones toward the temples for an instant lifted effect. She uses two visualization tricks: imagine a line down from the outer corner of the eye—or place two fingers beside the nose and begin the blush above them. The result is dramatically more youthful definition.
2. Use a Light Hand & Build Slowly
Over-blushing can age the face fast. “Start with a tiny amount and build gradually,” Gabi advises. If you accidentally go too heavy, don’t panic—just diffuse the color with translucent powder and a clean brush to soften the look without starting over.
3. Choose the Right Tools (Brush Size Matters!)
According to Gabi, the wrong brush can sabotage even the best blush. Oversized or densely packed brushes deposit too much pigment and spread color too low. “Tools are everything,” she says. Instead, she recommends small, fluffy brushes that allow precision and control—like the Rephr 05, Sweed angled blush brush, or BK Beauty 107, all favorites in her kit.
4. Switch to Cream Formulas for a Youthful Glow
Powder can settle into lines, while cream blush melts into the skin for a fresh, hydrated finish that mature complexions love. “Flat, dull skin is aging on everyone,” Gabi explains. “Cream blush brings luminosity back into the face.” She recommends applying cream blush first to the back of the hand, then picking it up with a brush for smoother, more buildable coverage. Her go-to formulas include Laura Geller Serum Blush Cheek Tints, Merit Flush Balms, Giorgio Armani Luminous Silk Cheek Tints, and Yves Saint Laurent’s new Make Me Blush liquid version. Budget-friendly favorites include L’Oréal Lumi Le Liquid Blush and NYX Sweet Cheeks tint.
5. Pick Shades That Brighten the Face, Not Age It
Color choice matters more than most women realize. “The right shade can make all the difference,” she says. For women over 40, soft pinks, peaches, and mauves are universally flattering and instantly brightening. Bright neons or deep, dark tones can look harsh and aging. Most important: match your undertone. “If you’re warm, choose warm peaches. If you’re cool, choose cooler rose or mauve tones.”
She also stresses that bronzer should never replace blush. “Bronzer warms the skin. Blush brightens and lifts the face. They do totally different things.”
With the right placement, tools, formulas, and shades, blush becomes a secret weapon for looking refreshed, sculpted, and effortlessly youthful at any age.