The Real Reasons Why Guys Don't Approach You In The Bar & Beyond

March 3, 2014 by Jihan Forbes
shefinds | Style
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Dating is hard, ya’ll. Well, it’s never been a walk in the park, but with the addition of online dating and hookup apps, the scene is more difficult than ever to navigate. Modern love is a hot mess. It almost makes us wish that ‘necking’ and ‘going steady’ were like, a thing these days…almost.

There’s nothing worse than getting dressed up to hit up a bar with the hopes of picking up a cutie, and returning home hours later with nothing to show for it but an expensive tab and a case of the spins. All that time tirelessly perfecting your seductive Beyoncé dance moves, and you didn’t get a single number this weekend? It’s frustrating but… we’re here for you! We asked some of our closest guy friends “what gives?” Why are guys failing to approach beautiful, charismatic, intelligent young women?

Turns out, it’s the little things you don’t notice that could be keeping men from talking to you. Click through our slideshow to find out what they are.

Don’t forget to check out the 10 types of guys you meet on Tinder, Ellen’s EPIC Oscars selfie, and Jennifer Lawrence tripping on the Oscars red carpet.

[Photos: Nasty Gal, Shutterstock, Splash]




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