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The Internet Is Losing It After A Video Of Benny Blanco’s ‘Unchivalrous’ Behavior With Selena Gomez Goes Viral: ‘Men Can’t Even Open Doors For Us Anymore’

November 25, 2025 by Abigail Connolly

 
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Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco have become one of today’s biggest couples, especially since their big white wedding happened a few months ago.

The award-winning music producer is under fire after a resurfaced clip of him and Selena resurfaced online, showing her allowing him to get in a car before her, showing a sort of role reversal in their relationship. The internet ended up doing a deep dive, finding several instances where the same thing happened between the pair, and many began slamming Benny, deeming his behavior “unchivalrous.”

Resurfaced & New Clips Depict Benny Blanco Entering And Exiting Cars Before Selena Gomez

There are a few celebrity couples who have been as outspoken about their love these days as the "Who Says" singer and the songwriter, who not only released their first collaborative album as a couple this year, but also tied the knot during an extravagant wedding two months ago.

Although they've opened up about their love story numerous times in interviews, noting how they almost instantly checked each other's boxes and helped each other overcome challenges, some have been worried about their relationship dynamic following some new and resurfaced clips. Users on social media platforms like X have been having a field day after seeing resurfaced and trending videos of the married couple traveling together. In one clip, Selena can be seen approaching a car before Benny, opening the door, and allowing Benny to go in before her.

In another clip, the couple is seen getting out of a car, and Benny exits the car first and walks ahead without his wife, nearly closing the door on her before she can exit. While to many people, these clips may not seem that bad, some people were concerned by the producer's "unchivalrous" behavior.

The Internet Slams Benny's Behavior On Social Media

After the paparazzi footage of the couple was shared online, users on X and other sites began slamming Benny for his behavior, finding it rude that he would enter and exit a car before and apart from his partner while being surrounded by paparazzi.

These days, many celebrity couples have nearly every bit of their public behavior analyzed closely. The way the enter and exit events have especially started trending, likely due to the viral videos of the Wizards of Waverly Place star's ex, Justin Bieber, closing doors on his wife, Hailey Bieber, and walking in front of her.

"Benny Blanco entering like it's his romcom moment," wrote a user on X.

"Women are more chivalrous these days," added another.

"Men can't even open doors for us anymore," commented a user.

Although there are many fans of the couple who believe that some of these critics are making something out of nothing, others continue to insist that Benny's behavior is a "red flag."

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