TikToker Who Lost 60 Lbs And Overcame Binge Eating Shares 5 Tips For Starting A ‘Sustainable’ Weight-Loss Journey: ‘Change Your Mindset’
November 30, 2025 by Mariam Qayum
Hailey Fernandes, a popular wellness TikToker who has lost 60 pounds and maintained her results for nearly three years, is opening up about the habits that helped her heal her relationship with food and build a healthier, more sustainable lifestyle. In a recent TikTok, she shared the five foundational changes that transformed her progress — and her mindset.
Fernandes, who says she spent much of her life dieting, begins by stressing that weight loss starts in the mind, not on the scale.
Hailey says her biggest breakthrough was learning to stop fearing food.“You need to immediately switch to the mindset that food is fuel,” she explains. “If you’re starving yourself all day, you’re just becoming more obsessed with food and hurting your relationship with your body.”
She encourages people to eat intentionally rather than restrictively: carbs before a workout, protein afterward, and whole foods that support energy and recovery. “Food is not your enemy,” she adds.