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Jennifer Lopez’s Ex Slams The Singer As ‘The Problem’ And Accuses Her Of Cheating After Her ‘Howard Stern’ Comments Go Viral: ‘Stop Playing The Victim’

October 22, 2025 by Julia DeKorte

 
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Jennifer Lopez has gotten away with saying some pretty outlandish things about her exes, but this time around, one of them wasn’t going to let her get away with it. After Lopez made comments on The Howard Stern Show about never having truly been loved before, her first husband, Ojani Noa, clapped back. Keep reading for more information.

Jennifer Lopez's 'Howard Stern' Diss

Appearing on The Howard Stern Show for the very first time, the mom-of-two covered a wide range of topics, which unsurprisingly included her infamous, headline-grabbing love life. Howard Stern was not one to beat around the bush, and asked Lopez outright if she thought she has "truly been loved" before.

To which JLo responded with a sigh, "No."

"What I learned, it's not that I'm not lovable," she said. "It's that they're not capable. They don't have it in them. They need to appreciate the little person inside of them. They need to love them."

"They gave me all of it, every time. All the rings, all the things I could ever want," she continued. "Tried to give me the houses, the rings, the marriage, all of it."

"But they didn't love you," Howard pointed out, and Lopez responded. "They didn't. And I didn't love myself."

Ojani Noa Claps Back

After hearing this, Noa wasn't too happy. "Stop putting us down. Stop putting me down with your victim card," Noa, 51, wrote in a rant on Instagram. "The problem is not us. Not me. The problem is you. You're the one who couldn't keep it in your pants."

"You've been 'loved' a few times," he continued. "You have been married 4 times. And have had countless relationships in between. You've had good relationships... Me for example. I'm an amazing, loving person, great human being. Honest, faithful to you, never lied, never misbehaved, never cheated on you. I was good to you. I'm too good of a [man] for you."

"But you," he added. "You chose fame and fortune moving apart of our relationship. You decided to lie, to cheat on me and even though I stayed. I even tried to keep the marriage going and alive. You begged me to keep the marriage intact to avoid bad press caring more about you."

"You wanted to continue cheating and lying. I couldn't stay anymore and deal with the constantly lying," he finished. "That's why I left you. That's why I divorced you. Tell the truth for once. Let people know you are the problem. You should be ashamed of yourself.

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