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Jennifer Lopez Reportedly Thinks She And Ben Affleck Are 'Destined To Be Together' After Having A 'Wonderful Time' At 'Kiss Of The Spider Woman' Premiere: 'She's Believed That All Along'

October 15, 2025 by Maria Pierides
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Jennifer Lopez may be making jokes about her poor choices when it comes to her love life, but if we are to believe insiders, she may actually want to get back together with ex-husband Ben Affleck for the third time. Yes, really!

But it should come as no surprise to learn that those closest to her believe it would be a very bad idea if they were to start things up again…

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Jennifer Lopez And Ben Affleck Appeared To Flirt With Each Other On The Red Carpet

According to reports, the Shotgun Wedding actress, 56, thinks the third time could very well be the charm, as she and her latest ex-husband have been getting on like a house on fire while promoting Kiss of the Spider Woman. The movie stars the "Love Don't Cost a Thing" singer as the main character, while the Argo star, 53, is producing it.

Insiders claim the pair were flirting with each other during the movie's New York premiere, with one reportedly telling National Enquirer: "J-Lo had a wonderful time with Ben and says he's as sexy and wonderful as ever."

Jennifer Lopez Ben Affleck Kiss of the Spider Woman red carpet

Jennifer Lopez Thinks She And Ben Affleck Are 'Destined To Be Together'

It's not just harmless flirting, as the insider reportedly thinks that the JLo Beauty mogul believes they are end game!

"In her mind they're destined to be together again, plain and simple," the source went on, adding: "She's believed that all along and now she's even more convinced that it's a case of when, not if, it's going to happen."

The insider concluded by saying the "I'm Real" singer feels the Gone Girl actor really could be her soulmate due to her string of failed brief romances since their divorce, adding: "None of those guys could hold a candle to Ben. He's the love of her life in every respect."

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Does Ben Affleck Feel The Same Way?

But does the Batman v Superman actor feel the same way? He did actually compliment her on her performance in the movie, telling Extra: "She's fabulous, although that shouldn't be any surprise to anyone."

Then again, he is reportedly still desperate to sell their Beverly Hills mansion at a huge loss just to be free of her once and for all, so it doesn't seem like he is as keen to reunite as she is.

He is also said to be "seething" about what she is saying about him in her new music, in particular, the song "Wreckage of You." The track features lyrics: "Thank you for the scars you left on my heart / For showing me that stars shine brighter in the dark / I won't fall apart because of who you are / And all your broken parts / It was perfect the while when you made me believe / Really got only greater for me / And it made me stronger, stronger, bulletproof / Now watch me climb out of the wreckage of you."

"He feels embarrassed. He just wants to leave it behind, not deal with friends and colleagues questioning him about her songs. To him, it majorly crosses a line," an insider shared, adding: "He's concerned this is only the start and that Jen will continue to reveal more through her lyrics. It frustrates him deeply, but he knows there's nothing he can do, she's entitled to express her life in her music."

Author:

Senior Celebrity Writer

Maria has spent the last decade writing about entertainment, fashion, and lifestyle for online and print publications all around the globe – including InStyle, OK!, and The Mirror. At SheFinds, Maria covers breaking celebrity news, red carpet looks, celebrity transformations, A-list couples, and has a watchful eye on celebrity social media accounts. You can reach her at contactmariapierides@gmail.com

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