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Ben Affleck Reportedly Thinks Jennifer Lopez's 'Revenge Song' About Their 'Nightmare' Divorce Is A 'Step Way Too Far': 'The Last Thing He Needs Right Now'

August 11, 2025 by Maria Pierides
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It’s no secret that Ben Affleck wants as little to do with ex-wife Jennifer Lopez as possible – hence why he is willing to do whatever it takes to sell their Beverly Hills mansion so he can be free of her once and for all.

J-Lo, on the other hand, doesn’t seem to feel the same way, as she is seemingly using her ex and their “nightmare divorce” as inspiration for her new music. It works for Taylor Swift, so we get it!

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Jennifer Lopez Seemingly Shades Ben Affleck In Her New Song 'Wreckage Of You'

The Gone Girl actor is reportedly furious that the "I'm Real" hitmaker has seemingly mentioned him in her latest song, especially because he doesn't seem to come across very well in it.

The Unstoppable actress's revenge song is entitled "Wreckage of You," and it's just as damaging as the title suggests. Some of the lyrics reportedly include: "Thank you for the scars you left on my heart // Was showing me that stars shine brighter in the dark // I won’t fall apart because of who we are // But your broken parts."

She also sings: "Because of you, I am stronger, wiser // Better than I've ever been // I won't let you no longer, longer // Ever say goodbye to me // It was perfect the while that you made me believe // Really got only greater for me // And it made me stronger, stronger, bulletproof // Now watch me climb out of the wreckage of you."

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"J-Lo's happy to be singing her truth. She's totally unapologetic and convinced this will be a launchpad for a whole new musical chapter," an insider reportedly told RadarOnline, before going on to say that the Batman v Superman actor being annoyed about the song will be the cherry on top.

"If it upsets Ben, then all the better, after the hell he put her through," the insider continued, adding: "She hasn't forgotten the pain, and writing about the experience and setting it to music is helping her."

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Jennifer Lopez's 'Revenge Song' Is The 'Last Thing' Ben Affleck Needs Right Now

The insider went on to explain that the Argo actor already has a lot on his plate, including their unsold mansion, and he is not happy that he is having to constantly address questions that his ex-wife's new song has brought.

"This nightmare scenario involving their house is still rumbling on and costing him a fortune. Now he has to deal with the fallout from J-Lo's song. It's just too much for him," the insider confessed.

"What she's insinuating is that Ben's the one that fell apart, not her," the insider went on. "For him, this is a step way too far. He's already under big pressure with work, and the last thing he needs right now is friends asking him how he feels about J-Lo's revenge song lyrics."

They added: "All he wants is to forget the marriage ever happened, but she's going out of her way to keep making things awkward and miserable. He's getting the impression that she wants to punish him till the end of time."

Author:

Senior Celebrity Writer

Maria has spent the last decade writing about entertainment, fashion, and lifestyle for online and print publications all around the globe – including InStyle, OK!, and The Mirror. At SheFinds, Maria covers breaking celebrity news, red carpet looks, celebrity transformations, A-list couples, and has a watchful eye on celebrity social media accounts. You can reach her at contactmariapierides@gmail.com

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