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A Weight Loss Coach Who Lost 160-Lbs Reveals The 5 'Diet Rules' She 'Broke' In Order To Successfully Slim Down: Only Doing Cardio, More

November 7, 2025 by Abigail Connolly
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These days, there are so many different kinds of ‘rules’ going around the health and wellness community regarding weight loss.

However, so many of these rules and restrictions are old-school and can end up hurting your progress instead of helping it. That’s why it’s better to listen to experts and people who have successfully lost weight in a healthy way when starting a weight loss journey. Amber C., a content creator and weight loss coach who has lost over 160 pounds, made a video about five “diet rules” she “broke” in order to have a successful weight loss. Read more about them below.

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1. Cutting Out All Sugar & Sweets

One of the oldest dieting rules in the book is to cut out all sources of refined sugar and sweet treats. However, one of the biggest mistakes people make when trying to slim down is to restrict themselves to things they love, like desserts and sweets, which can be enjoyed in moderation.

 

"I stopped demonizing sugar," wrote Amber. "Allowing treats in moderation made my diet sustainable and actually helped me stay consistent."

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2. Only Doing Cardio For Exercise

There is a lot of information flying around about which type of exercise is best for effective weight loss, and many believe that cardio is the key to shedding excess pounds. While cardio is very beneficial and a great form of exercise, Amber notes that one of the best ways to keep up consistent and maintainable weight loss is by expanding your fitness routine.

 

"Strength training changed everything," she wrote. "Building muscle sped up my metabolism and reshaped my body."

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3. Avoiding Eating Out

For many people trying to lose weight, eating out at restaurants can be a real struggle, as some menus are filled with indulgent items and not all of them list the calories or nutritional information. However, eating out is a big part of socializing and treating yourself, so you shouldn't consider it a forbidden activity.

 

"I learned how to enjoy restaurants by making mindful choices, balancing the rest of my day, and not stressing about one meal," explained Amber.

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4. Cutting Out All Carbs

Many health influencers and more who follow old-school dieting rules will try to tell you that carbohydrates are the enemy when it comes to weight loss - don't listen to them! Carbohydrates are an essential macronutrient that gives you great energy to get through your day.

 

"I actually lost weight while eating carbs every single day," noted Amber. "Carbs give your body energy, keep workouts strong, and make meals satisfying. It's not carbs that cause weight gain; it's eating more than your body needs overall."

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5. Say No To Special Occasions

Just like eating at a restaurant, some occasions, like birthday parties, nights out, and more, can lead to less-nutritional habits and items, like alcoholic drinks, cake, etc. And while taking part in all of that can hinder weight loss when done frequently, if it's only on special occasions, then you should be fine.

 

"I used to avoid birthdays, holidays, and dinners out because I thought one meal would ruin my progress," Amber wrote. "But the truth? One meal doesn't undo months of healthy habits. What matters is consistency, not perfection."

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Editorial Assistant

Abigail is a journalist based in Brooklyn, New York. As an Editorial Assistant for SheFinds, she covers topics ranging from celebrity news and fashion to wellness. She has written for other publications, including Chip Chick, Bandsintown, BroadwayWorld, and more. When she isn't writing, Abigail loves spending time in the city with her friends, being a 'dog mom' to her Chihuahua, and singing along to some of her favorite music.

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Healthy seeds displayed, not pastries.
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Person having a lunch meal.
Sipping spearmint tea in a cozy setting.
Frustrated older woman touching her head in distress
Woman experiencing chest pain, seeking medical attention
Variety of bread types showcased on a table.
Woman holding her head, expressing stress.
Woman experiencing joint pain while sitting.
Variety of fast food from Dunkin', Chick-fil-A, Starbucks.
Woman adding sugar to a steaming cup of coffee.
Tasty bagels with blueberries and butter on a wooden board.
Pouring vitamin D into palm for healthy skin benefits.
Comparison of cooking spray and olive oil for healthy cooking.
Older woman taking dietary supplements with water.
Brazilian dish featuring rice, beans, and chicken from above.
Handful of assorted dietary supplements in palm.