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Ben Affleck Is Reportedly 'Seething' Over Jennifer Lopez's New Song Lyrics About Their Divorce: 'Her Lyrics Are A Step Too Far'

September 19, 2025 by Julia DeKorte
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It sounds like Jennifer Lopez is getting back at Ben Affleck following their divorce based off of the lyrics she just dropped. Sing of “the scars you left on my heart,” fans can’t help but make the connection to her recent heartbreak, and according to reports Ben himself sees it too, and he’s not happy about it. Keep reading for more information.

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Jennifer Lopez Sings About Ex Ben Affleck

At a private listening party earlier this month, JLo sang six unreleased songs for only the ears of 30 fans. However, as it always does, word got out about her new vengeful lyrics pretty quickly.

One song in particular has caught the eyes of fans: Wreckage of You. Lyrics from the song include, "Thank you for the scars you left on my heart / For showing me that stars shine brighter in the dark / I won't fall apart because of who you are / And all your broken parts."

"It was perfect the while when you made me believe," she continues singing in the chorus. "Really got only greater for me / And it made me stronger, stronger, bulletproof / Now watch me climb out of the wreckage of you."

Some pretty damning lyrics!

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Ben Affleck 'Seething' Over New Song Lyrics

Ben Affleck somehow got ears on the unreleased track and word on the street is that he's not happy about it. According to RadarOnline.com, Ben is "seething" over the new track, calling it a "damning" act of revenge. "He feels embarrassed. He just wants to leave it behind, not deal with friends and colleagues questioning him about her songs. To him, it majorly crosses a line."

"He's concerned this is only the start and that Jen will continue to reveal more through her lyrics," the source continued. "It frustrates him deeply, but he knows there's nothing he can do—she's entitled to express her life in her music."

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JLo, however, is allegedly "thrilled" by Ben's reaction. "Her friends feel it's long overdue that Ben's the one feeling uncomfortable. They're encouraging her to keep at it, and the fans can't get enough. For Jen, it's both healing and creatively rewarding."

"Jen feels free and unapologetic about channeling her emotions into her music," the source added. "She's sure this marks the beginning of a new chapter, and if it unsettles Ben, that's his issue."

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Julia DeKorte is a New York-based writer. A graduate of the Columbia Publishing Course, Julia covers celebrity and brand news for SheFinds, reviews toys and games for People of Play, and loves cooking for her family, walking her dogs, and running outside, preferably in view of the ocean.

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