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Meghan Markle Reportedly 'Silenced' Kate Middleton With This Awkward Joke At Her First Trooping The Color In 2018: 'Colorful'

June 21, 2026 by Maria Pierides
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A resurfaced extract from Prince Harry‘s bestselling memoir, Spare, is making the rounds again following this year’s Trooping the Color. The extract recalls an awkward exchange between Meghan Markle and Kate Middleton during Meghan’s first-ever Trooping the Color appearance in 2018, which came just weeks after her wedding to Prince Harry.

The annual military parade is held to mark the monarch’s official birthday, and this year’s event has prompted royal fans to revisit Harry’s account of the seemingly uncomfortable interaction which took place amid what we now know were growing tensions between the two women. Keep reading to find out more…

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Royal Family with Kate Middleton and Meghan Markle Trooping the Color 2018

Prince Harry Recalls Meghan Markle's First Trooping The Color In 'Spare'

According to Prince Harry's account in Spare, the former Suits actress made an awkward joke during her first Trooping the Color appearance as a member of the royal family, at a time when tensions behind the scenes were allegedly already running high.

The Duke and Duchess of Sussex had married just one month earlier at St. George's Chapel in Windsor, and Harry suggested relations between Meghan and Kate remained strained following the reported and now infamous disagreement over Princess Charlotte's bridesmaid dress ahead of the wedding. We still to this day don't know what happened and who made who cry, but we don't think their relationship has been the same ever since!

For the occasion, Meghan wore a blush pink off-the-shoulder Carolina Herrera dress, which raised eyebrows at the time as revealing her shoulders was seen as breaking royal sartorial protocol. Kate, meanwhile, opted for a pale blue Alexander McQueen ensemble, which she paired with a coordinating hat by milliner Juliette Botterill and a chic updo, sticking with royal dress codes.

Kate Middleton and Meghan Markle Trooping the Color 2018

Prince Harry Says Meghan Markle's Joke Was Met With A 'Yawning Silence'

According to Prince Harry's account in his memoir, everyone appeared to be enjoying the occasion despite the reported tensions that had allegedly been brewing behind the scenes in the months leading up to the event – until Meghan replied to Kate's seemingly innocent question.

"Everyone present was in a good mood, upbeat. But then: Kate asked Meg what she thought of her first Trooping the Color," Harry wrote in Spare. The Duke of Sussex said Meghan replied with a one-word joke: "Colorful."

"And a yawning silence threatened to swallow us all whole," Harry added, describing the uncomfortable reaction that followed.

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Senior Celebrity Writer

Maria has spent the last decade writing about entertainment, fashion, and lifestyle for online and print publications all around the globe – including InStyle, OK!, and The Mirror. At SheFinds, Maria covers breaking celebrity news, red carpet looks, celebrity transformations, A-list couples, and has a watchful eye on celebrity social media accounts. You can reach her at contactmariapierides@gmail.com

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