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Traditionally, the bride’s family pays for most of the wedding, while the groom’s parents cover a few of the expenses around the big day (the rehearsal dinner, the groom’s cake, etc.) These days, though, the groom’s family might want to contribute more financially to their son’s special day. While any help is appreciated, these are six expenses they shouldn’t have to cover for you.
The Bridal Shower
The groom’s mom will definitely play a part in the bridal shower--either as just a guest or as an organizer--but the task of actually paying for it is typically left to the bride’s mother and/or her bridesmaids.
The Wedding Dress
Again, it’s a nice touch to invite the groom’s mom (and sisters if he has any) to come with you to choose a dress. When it comes time to pay for it, though, that is a cost that is traditionally taken care of by the bride’s parents.
The Rings
While it’s fine for the groom to give his bride an heirloom ring from his family, he should be paying for the engagement ring, while the couple should gift each other their wedding bands.
Bachelor/Bachelorette Parties
Depending on how close—and comfortable—you are with them, some couples do invite their parents to their bachelor and bachelorette parties. But the respective bridal parties should pick up the tab.
Bridal Party Gifts
Your bridal party has spent time and money to be a part of your special day, so their gifts should come from you and the groom—not either set of parents.
The Favors
The same goes for the favors: This is your thank you to all of your guests for being a part of the wedding day. You don’t have to spend a fortune, but you should cover this expense.
