Couples have been saying "I Do" for centuries, and traditions have come and gone throughout the years. But there are some customs that are sometimes forgotten, but are definitely worth a second look on your wedding day. Check out these six that you might want to incorporate into your event.
Honoring your parents.
Couples sometimes get so wrapped up in becoming husband and wife that they forget about the people who brought them into the world. Whether it’s having them participate in the candle lighting or sand ceremony during the vows or making a heartfelt toast in their honor, even if your parents aren’t contributing financially you should still take the time to make sure they feel important.
Cutting the cake.
Those cake smashes have made this ritual one that many couples are opting to skip, but that’s a mistake--just make sure you do it right, says Marilisa Martel Schachinger of Martel Event. “Etiquette guidelines may differ, but I suggest the groom to hold the knife with his right hand and for the bride to place her hand on his for them to cut their first slice together. It's a beautiful moment because it's truly the first action the husband and wife work on together as one since they are pronounced at the ceremony!”
Exchanging flowers.
A few short years ago, each family would actually split the florals between each side of the family. The groom's side would take care of the women, for example all of the bouquets, corsages and of course the bride's bouquet. The bride’s side would take care of the rest. “I always thought it was such a sweet tradition as the groom would get to buy his soon-to-be wife and her maids’ flowers to celebrate their lifelong marriage,” says Amanda Lankford of Amanda Jewel Floral + Design.
Thanking guests.
During the cake cutting, wedding couples often forget – or don’t realize – that this is the perfect moment to speak to their guests and say their joint thank you’s, says Sandy Hammer of AllSeated.
Remembering lost loved ones.
Your wedding is a perfect time to honor loved ones who have passed away, says Ashley Espinal of Dulce Dreams Events. Not sure how to do it? Here are some ideas to get you started.
Sending guests home with favors.
Couples are spending more than ever on the overall guest experience, so it might seem like a good idea to skip favors in order to save some money. But guests have come to expect favors, and even a small token would be much appreciated.
