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All The Financial Commitments You Should Expect When You Agree To Be A Bridesmaid

May 13, 2016 by Linda DiProperzio
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While being a part of someone's wedding day is an honor, it is also a big financial commitment. In order to plan your budget wisely, here's a list of things you’ll be paying for in the months leading up to the big day.

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The Dress

A bridesmaid's most important expense is the dress she’ll wear to the wedding, and how much it costs depends on the bride’s taste. Some brides will simply pick a color and let her maids choose their own dresses, while others insist on a uniform look and then the choice is solely up to her. If you’re on a super tight budget, be sure to be honest about exactly how much you can spend on this item.

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Accessories

Of course, you’ll need shoes to match that dress, but there’s also jewelry and possibly a wrap or shrug if it’s going to be cold (although many brides will gift their bridesmaids with a few of these extra items before the big day).

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Alterations

Many dresses need to be altered, which can set you back a few hundred dollars depending on the work and who is doing it.

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Hair & Makeup

Even if you’re great with your hair and makeup, this might not be something you want to take on before such an important event. This is probably a splurge you want to make.

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The Bridal Shower

At the very least, you will need to buy a gift for the bride-to- be. Most of the time, the bride's mother plans and pays for the shower, but you should offer to chip in and help out if needed.

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The Bachelorette Party

Whether it's a weekend away or a night out with the girls, this another mandatory expense so start saving now.

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Travel Expenses

This really depends on where the wedding is held. If it's a destination wedding or you live in a different area than the couple, you might need to pay for airfare and hotel. Even if it's local, you might want to still spring for a hotel room near the venue so you can have a good time without worrying how to get home.

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Wedding Gift

While some couples don't expect gifts from their bridal party (after all, you just spent a pretty penny in the months leading up to the wedding), others might not let you off the hook.

 

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Linda DiProperzio is a weddings expert and freelance writer based in New York.

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