I’m getting married in May and despite having written for two bridal publications, I’ve made a lot of mistakes along the way, especially regarding the treatment of my bridesmaids. Like many brides, I thought picking a flattering bridesmaid dress and giving my ‘maids a robe or a piece of jewelry the day before the wedding was all it would take to earn their eternal affection. Wrong! So, please, don’t be me. Read on for 10 ways to avoid royally pissing off your bridesmaids. You can thank me later.